Why?

Why is it that children never listen? Even if they are adults why can't they see you might have it right this time? Oldest had a job went she moved back to IL. She didn't like the hours and the driving they had to do so, she went on the hunt for a new job. Once she found one I told her to hang on to the other job for awhile just in case things didn't work out. She didn't and lost her new job. Grr!
So, she went on the hunt again and is now working posting ads for some weird company in which I think is most likely a scam but, she doesn't want to hear that. I told her to do it if she wants to but, keep looking for other work. I don't think she is listening to that advice either.
Youngest daughter is still miserable and still living with her boyfriend. I think that is going to backfire on her. She isn't really allowed to make any decisions about their son including his name but, she just sits there and takes that crap. Grr!
For once I would like for them to just take the easy road. Quit making everything so damn difficult. Especially with the important stuff.